the swift kick

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Adoption

And we said yes

“Hi Kristin, this is Ashley at WACAP…kind of an interesting situation came up and I wanted to run some information past you. If you could give me a call back as soon as possible, that’d be great.” It was one year ago today when I got that call. I was in the produce aisle of the Metropolitan Market in Kirkland, looking at Pink Lady apples and drinking a 12-ounce Americano. […]

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We hired a babysitter!

Last week, I hired a babysitter. You might be puzzled about why something so ordinary would merit a blog post. I’ll tell you why. My search for a babysitter was only slightly less difficult than keeping track of all the characters on “Game of Thrones.” (What about that season finale? Sheesh. Didn’t see that coming.) Our longtime babysitter, Anna, came to us through a babysitting agency. She’s seen Bini through […]

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Guangzhou, the introduction

Whew, it’s been awhile since I shared my story about the Chinese toilet. My parents and brother came to visit, it was Bini’s birthday, XJ has been snoring like a buzzsaw and we’re not getting any sleep, etc. That’s a post for later. I’m long overdue in posting about our travels, and we’re in the final leg, Guangzhou. I should also note that we’ve renamed XJ to Evan, which is […]

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How to survive in Xi’an with your kid and a kid you don’t really know yet (hint: TV, yelling and alcohol)

So, when we last left off, Steve and Bini and I had just met our brand-new family member, and ferried him back to the hotel. We’d been bundled off into the elevator by the kind, curious and solicitous Sheraton hospitality staff, and finally, we were in our room. We’d done it. All the home visits, the paperwork, the notarizations, the check-writing and the waiting, waiting, waiting — it was over. […]

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